Parenting is Not Just a Moral Duty; It's Your Legal Obligation
Welcome to Plan di Mayor
Prioritizing Your Children's Well-Being in Every Decision
Plan di Mayor is your definitive guide to compassionate, child-focused co-parenting. Navigate the intricacies of separation while ensuring your child's well-being is at the forefront and comply with the law.
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What Is Plan di Mayor?
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Join us in our mission to support continued parenting and prevent negative impacts on children after a Separation
What we do
Help You Understand your Duties When Separating
Help mothers, fathers, legal guardians and direct caretakers facing separation their legal responsabilities toward the children affected
Make proper assessments: Each Family is Different
Each family is different, and Plan di Mayor recognizes this. Discover how we tailor our approach to meet your family's individual needs.
Assist and resolve through Mediation & Guidance
With the signing of a mediation agreement, sessions begin to address and resolve each identified issue. Each meeting lasts 1.5 to 2 hours, with constant updates via an Actions and Agreements List.
Achieve mutually binding parental agreements and advocacy
Once an agreement is reached, a parenting plan is drawn up and legally ratified. This plan serves as a roadmap for collaborative parenting, with enforceable actions and responsibilities. We also raise awareness to educate parents and lobby with law makers to uphold childrens rights to healthy and safe environments during separations.
Mission
We dedicate ourselves to empowering and supporting parents and children in the process of separation and divorce, mitigating negative effects on a child's well-being by placing children and their needs at the center. Plan di Mayor Aruba aligns with the Convention on the Rights of the Child and supports parents in formalizing a parenting plan with the child at the center, ensuring the child's views are heard and respected in the process. We monitor our processes and adapt where necessary.
Vision
Our vision is to foster an environment in which children's well-being is safeguarded during the difficult moments of separation between parents. Our goal is to ensure that no child experiences trauma or negative consequences as a result of separation. We work in an evidence-based way.
How it works
After completing our comprehensive Parental Assessment Form to help us understand your situation family dynamics we can assess if Plan di Mayor suits you:
Start Assessment
Plan di Mayor Process
A comprehensive parent/family intake and routing process, guiding families through assessment to the appropriate support pathway.
3Support Pathways
Based on assessment, families are routed to one of three tracks
Family Mediation
- max 6 weeks
- max 5 conversations
- max 2 child conversations per child
Parenting Continues?
- max 9 months
- max 18 conversations
- max 8 child conversations per child
- max 8 guided visits with non-resident parent
Parallel Solo Parenting
- max 9 months
- max 18 conversations
- max 8 child conversations per child
- max 8 guided visits with non-resident parent
3Support Pathways
Based on assessment, families are routed to one of three tracks
KIES Group Intervention
School-based group program for preschool (4–6), children (7–12), and teens (13–17) with KIES coaches — helping young people navigate parental separation through play-based methods and professional support.
Besides these three school-age groups, KIES also offers a dedicated grandparents plan (KIES Grootouderplan, Welo y Wela). That is a separate mediation instrument and not part of this group intervention curriculum.
Form
Before proceeding with the Plan di Mayor process, it's essential to complete this Parental Relationship Assessment Form. The information you provide will help us better understand your unique family situation, allowing us to better support you and your children through this transitional period.
All information provided will remain confidential and non-commital between you and Plan di Mayor. Depending on your assessment, this assessment form is for qualification purposes and does not guarantee commitment from Plan di Mayor.